This afternoon I went to a retirement party for a friend. He is my age
and has also now retired from the computer industry. My advice to him was the
same as I’ve always given. Make sure you have something to retire into. My
second piece of advice from my recent heart attack experience is to not over
commit in retirement and to allow time to relax, enjoy walks and take naps. I’ve
recently become a big fan of naps.
Thursday, October 31, 2013
Retire Into
I’ve been an advocate of finding something to retire into. This is the
path I took in 2007 when I retired from 39 years in the computer industry into
fiction writing. I still think it’s important to plan retirement and not be at
loose ends.
Thursday, October 24, 2013
Different Writing Genres
One of the interesting things happening in modern fiction is the blending
of genres. It used to be there were distinct boundaries separating mystery,
romance, science fiction, etc. Now with more experimentation through
self-publishing and small press options, writers are more often
melding genres.
I write mysteries but they include romantic elements. Because of this I
joined Romance Writers of America as well as Mystery Writers of America.
I also have two published paranormal/urban fantasy mysteries published by
small presses. With this new direction I recently attended the science fiction/fantasy
Mile Hi Con in Denver. This introduced me to a new world of people in
interesting costumes and a wide variety of writers and artists.
Like cooking, writing can blend a variety of genres. It leads to a
delicious meal.
Thursday, October 17, 2013
Looking at Clouds
Did you ever lie on your back on the grass and look up at clouds when you
were a kid? I can remember doing this with friends as we commented on all the
different shapes we saw: rabbits, cars, giraffes and expanding blobs.
Okay, now as adults have you looked at clouds? I don’t think I have for
almost sixty years. It’s a good exercise, though. After my heart attack three
weeks ago, I’m trying to unclutter my life and not rush so much. I’ve even
spent time just looking at clouds again. A week ago, I sat in my office chair
looking out the window and rather than rushing to the next item on my to-do
list, I watched the clouds. They blew, bubbled and churned. Two days ago I lay
in bed with the curtains open and watched the clouds at dusk as they turned
yellow and pink. What a delightful experience.
Stop and sniff the flowers. Also stop and watch the clouds.
Thursday, October 10, 2013
Learning to Procrastinate
I’m not a
good procrastinator, but after my recent heart attack I’m learning to not try
and do everything right away. It’s a matter of priorities. The big things need
to be done, but don’t stress the little stuff. This is a good lesson for me. I
tend to get too wrapped up in my “to-do” list.
In the
last two weeks I’ve canceled a lot of activities, asked other people to cover
for me and reassessed what are the important things on my list. The top include
my family followed by walking, relaxation and writing. There are a number of other activities I’ll put
off.
I enjoyed
a character in John Vorhaus’s novel, The Albuquerque Turkey, named Vic Mirplo who
had a saying, “Procrastinate later.” Well, rather than feeling I have to do
everything immediately, I’m learning how to procrastinate right now.Saturday, October 5, 2013
Go left, Live: Go Right, Die
No, the title of this blog post
is not a political statement. It refers to a life transforming event. I can add
one item to my list of achievements: I’m now a heart attack survivor. I can assure you
this wasn’t something on my bucket list. It wasn’t even an event on my radar as
a possibility.
Why? Because I supposedly did the
right things. I never smoked, I exercised every day, I ate healthy food. But Thursday
a week ago as I returned home after playing platform tennis, I noticed a tightness
in my chest. At first I thought it was indigestion. Then as I got closer to home,
it felt like someone had punched me in the chest.
I faced a quick decision. I could
turn right into my residential area to head home to rest or turn left toward
the emergency room of our nearest hospital. I made the correct decision and
drove into the parking lot of the hospital. I stumbled inside, told the
receptionist I had chest pains and in moments they had me in a room with tubes
attached. This hospital didn’t have the cardiac unit, so within minutes I was
transferred to a gurney, put in an ambulance and taken to the hospital across town. Later I was told I was
in the operating room within seventeen minutes of entering the first hospital.
After three days in the intensive
care unit and two more days on the cardiac floor, I returned home. I am now
recuperating, getting a lot of rest and adjusting my life style to a new
reality. I haven’t done any writing and probably won’t for another week, but I
will get back to it. In the meantime, I’ve watched some old movies on
television, taken lots of naps and relaxed. It’s great to be alive.
Thursday, September 26, 2013
Earth, Water, Air and Fire
After the flood destruction here
in Colorado this month, I’ve been thinking about natural disasters. Ancients
spoke of the four elements: earth, water, air and fire. My wife made a good
observation the other day that I hadn’t consciously recognized before. These
four elements also account for our natural disasters. It’s ironic that
contracts often refer to “Act’s of God.” To me, disasters have nothing to do with
God unless you hold with a vengeful Old Testament type of God who likes to
punish people. Let’s take a look at the four elements.
Air. Ah, those storms. Wind, tornados, hurricanes, cyclones, typhoons, Chinook, Santa Ana whatever you choose to call them can wreck devastation. And some of them produce ocean surges and the accompanying rainfall, leading to flooding. Blizzards combine air and water as do hail storms. Dust storms (simoom, haboob) combine earth and air.
Earth. An earthquake shook
Pakistan this week and killed many people. If you live in California, this is
always a possibility as well. I grew up in Hawaii where volcanic eruptions (a combination of earth and fire)
occurred frequently.
Water. In drought, we seek it, in
flood we want it to stop. There are also tsunamis, a combination of earth
(earthquakes) and a resulting massive pulse of water. We’ve recently
experienced a 100 year flood here in Colorado. After several years of drought,
we broke all records for a day, month and year with one week of too much rain.
The power of water carved the Grand Canyon. I’ve seen pictures of roads obliterated
in canyons in the Colorado mountains in the recent flooding and witnessed the flood
erosion on nearby hiking trails.Air. Ah, those storms. Wind, tornados, hurricanes, cyclones, typhoons, Chinook, Santa Ana whatever you choose to call them can wreck devastation. And some of them produce ocean surges and the accompanying rainfall, leading to flooding. Blizzards combine air and water as do hail storms. Dust storms (simoom, haboob) combine earth and air.
Fire. We have had too many
wildfires in Colorado the last few years. These have caused damage to thousands
of acres of forest and the houses built in these areas, and taken lives. A number of the wildfires were caused by lightning.
Thus, the elements that provide
for our existence (earth, water, air and fire) also bring the risk of natural disasters.
It’s just the way our world works.Thursday, September 19, 2013
Writing During a Disaster
With all the flooding in Colorado
over the last week, I’ve managed to get some writing done, although it was hard
to concentrate. We’ve been fortunate to have no damage to our house, but
throughout Boulder and other parts of the state it’s been a disaster.
Many mornings I remained glued to
the television to see what was happening. Then I started taking walks to survey
the damage in my neighborhood and walkable locations nearby. Currently, the
water in the creeks has subsided in Boulder, but driveways are full of carpet
and water-damaged objects. The Open Space areas are still closed, so walking
has to be limited to city streets and bike paths.
Insurance companies refer to an
event like this as an act of God. I don’t think God had anything to do with it.
Stuff happens and sometimes it’s Katrina or Sandy and recently it has been too
much rain in Colorado after earlier drought and fires.
Our thoughts go out to all of
those who have suffered through this tragedy. As Annie says, the sun’ll come
out tomorrow.
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