What I’ve Learned During the Coronavirus Pandemic

This has been a tough time for all of us. As someone in the at-risk age group, I’ve stayed at home except to go to the food store and take occasional walks. Along the way I’ve learned a number of lessons:

1.      It’s hard to give up old habits. Just before the stay-at-home began, I was doing a speaking event at a library. I had promised myself I would not shake hands with anyone. When I arrived and the librarian greeted me, my first reaction was to stick out my hand. Then I said whoops and pulled it back. After attending one day of the Left Coast Crime Conference before it was cancelled, I had adapted to not shaking hands. It is now a permanent part of my behavior.

2.      Boredom is a challenge to many people stuck at home but it can be dealt with. I thought I would be bored but fortunately it has been the opposite. My wife and I take care of our 4-yeart-old grandson on weekdays while his parents work. This is a full time job and has kept me hopping with Zoom preschool calls for him, playing and inventing new games, reading, doing puzzles, building block creations, using sidewalk chalk. By the end of the day when his parents pick him up, I am tired and have had lots of exercise. We have a break on weekends, and I recharge with reading, walking and napping. During this stay-at-home time, I also wrote and self-published a story titled, Coronavirus Daze about a boy keeping a journal during the pandemic and making an amazing discovery. I have not been bored after the first few days of having to give up pickleball and other activities.

3.      People have different reactions to the pandemic. My son who works in a hospital instilled in me early-on the necessity to stay at home for our protection but also to help flatten the curve because he knew hospitals could be overwhelmed if we allowed the cases to rise too quickly. Other people have the reaction that it’s not going to happen to them and even if they get sick it won’t be very serious.

4.      The pandemic has led to a debate of health versus the economy. Both are important. We need to protect our citizens and have sensible policies and over time we need to take intelligent and planned steps to restart the economy.

5.      We’re all in this together. The pandemic has reinforced the interconnectivity of the world, our local communities and our families. At all levels it provides challenges that we need to think through and address.

Stay healthy.