Thursday, January 14, 2016

Things


I’m not into things.  I don’t have a desire to own or collect things.  I don’t feel any compunction to get a bigger house, fancier car, new furniture, expensive adult toys or stylish clothes.  What I have right now is just fine, thank you.

At the heart of it, I hate to shop.

When it’s time to get a new car, I usually dread the experience, then finally get involved in the project of researching options and finally take care of it.  But my reaction isn’t, “Oh, boy.  I get to buy a new car.”  Instead I feel, “Groan, I have to buy a new car.”

Whether I need a new pair of pants or shoes, I want to rush into the first store I find, grab the first thing I see off the shelf and get out.  I don’t enjoy window shopping or shopping for what’s behind the window.

Consequently, if I never had to buy anything again, I’d be perfectly happy.  Part of it is I don’t like spending money, but mainly I’m not interested in things.

Even when playing sports, I’m not interested in the equipment.  If a pickle ball paddle lasted forever, that would be just fine by me.  I tend to use things until they fall apart.

I don’t collect stamps or coins, but I do enjoy collecting shells when I’m at a beach.  That’s more like finding unexpected treasure.

So when I die, my kids shouldn’t expect to inherit much in the way of accumulated material objects of value.  We saved money for retirement so whatever is left, they will get, but other than the house, that’s about it.

I had a lot of books at one time, but when we moved last year, I gave most of those away. 

For birthdays or Christmas I’m no longer interested in getting things.  I have what I need.  Sure I like new books, will wear the clothes I’m given and love the chocolate while it lasts, but the present mentality I had as a kid has been tempered over the years.  I look forward to our family gatherings when we’re able to get together.  I prefer presence to presents.

22 comments:

Local cash for cars said...

Local Cash for Car is a licensed auto removal company that buys all types of used, junk, scrap, broken, and damaged vehicles for as much as up to Cash For Cars Petrie Terrace

APlus Car Removal said...

Thanks for this posting
How To Get Free Car Removal Sydney Quote?
It is way easier than you think!To begin with, hassle-free car removal Sydney service, call us and talk to any of our representatives and get an estimate for your car. cash for cars sydney

aliteymori said...

junk car removal is the best cash for cars brisbane up to $12000 and free car removal on the sameday we provide top cash for junk cars in gold coast, brisbane, ipswich, logan and caboolture just call us 0483-333-444
cash for junk cars logan
cash for unwanted cars ipswich
cash for scrap cars gold coast

Local Cash for Car said...

This company is very experienced, and they can make your used car sell for cash in no time. If you are having trouble finding a good price, or just don't like the car you are selling, and want it gone as fast as possible, then sell my car for cash in Brisbane. You are only a few short weeks away from moving your unused or unwanted vehicles from one location to another! One quick phone call and you will have the money in your hands. They will pick up your used car, inspect it, and offer you cash in less than two weeks.Cash For Cars Paddington

Charlie Lix said...

No matter where you live, there will always be a buyers market for cars. People are always looking to sell their old vehicles, so you will always get back more cash for cars than you spent on the car. To sell your car fast, sign up with a car removal Brisbane company. If you are selling your car privately, then you can advertise on the internetCar Removal Canberra

Max Cash for Cars Brisbane said...

It's time for you to go green and give a car donation to a local charity or car removal company in ACT. Car donations are a great way to help save our environment. Donating your car is one of the easiest ways we can help our environment. Here's how:car buyer caboolture

Cash for Cars Victoria said...

What we really love about our business is that we don't charge you a fortune for top cash for your car removal. For all our services we ask you to pay only minimum to no money at all. If you require fast service, we will make you a special offer and that offer is only available through call us. Why would anyone choose any other way? !Scrap Cars Mansfield

Messan Jackson said...

Sometimes people will sell scrap cars because they no longer want the vehicle. Other times, people trade in scrap cars for other reasons. You may be able to get cash for your scrap car through different sources. Some junk yards may allow you to take the vehicle for free, others may charge a fee. Before you go to a junk yard to get cash for scrap cars, be sure to research their policies and regulations.car removal

Local Cash for Car said...

We accept cash for cars regardless of the age or condition. Whether it be a dented or damaged vehicle, we will pay cash for cars. All you need to do is fill our online form and we will send you a price quote. From here you will have the freedom to choose whether or not we will accept the damaged vehicle. Damaged cars are sold as-is, no repairs will be made. cash for cars brisbanecash for old cars brisbane

North Bena said...

You can find one or two types of charters at The North Coast Wreckers. One of them is the Spirit of the West, which offers charters lasting seven days. For this type of fishing, you will be taken to the site at dawn and taken on a long walk from there to the boat. You'll get a delicious lunch as well. This is one of the best packages offered by The North Coast Wreckers.Car Removal Townsville

Adrians said...

Scrap metal recyclers are businesses that transform scrap metal into cash. This can be in the form of cash payments or in the form of donations to local charities. You can even sell scrap metal and receive cash right from the recycling center. It is actually one of the fastest-growing industries in the country, and it is gaining momentum. The Gold Coast is quickly becoming one of the nation's top destinations for recycling.cash for scrap cars tweed heads

Kelly Byrnes said...

There are a number of places that buy unwanted cars for cash that can be found on the internet. Some of them offer cash for junk cars. They will pay you top dollar for any car that is deemed to be an upgrade or top of the line. They might be out to make a fast buck off of you and will probably charge you a hefty price in order to do it. If they are a reliable source, they will provide you with a good warranty so that you are covered in case anything goes wrong.townsville wreckers cars for sale

Eagle Car Removals said...

Hi, I am really glad I have found this info. There’s nothing better than a free service – except when you add to the equation a top-dollar payment up to $9,999! That’s exactly what you get when you choose Eagle Car Removals in Gold Coast: with every Free Car Removal we provide, we’ll also buy your vehicle from you with exceptional Free Car Removal Brisbane deals, paid on the spot. Call now 07 3275 2178

Kelly Byrnes said...

If you're looking to get rid of your unwanted vehicle, Cash for Car Removals Ipswich can help. They can remove any type of vehicle. From a junker to a classic car, you can sell it to them. They will even pick it up for free! cars for cash ipswich

Austin Marc said...

Getting rid of an old vehicle is easy when you use a cash for cars Gold Coast service. They will come to you and remove your vehicle for free, and they even offer to pick up your car from the airport cash for cars gold coast

Crystal Coleman said...

Many people in Brisbane are looking for a reliable way to dispose of an old, unwanted car. There are many places you can sell your old vehicle, but Cash for Cars Removal Brisbane has the highest cash payouts.cash for cars brisbane

metro car removal experts said...

Your Local Cash For Cars Sydney, We Provide Car Removal Service Sydney - https://metrocarremovalexperts.com.au/

Cash for cars Canberra said...

Cash For Cars Canberra - Get Quote Now - https://topcashforcarscanberra.com.au/cash-for-cars-service-canberra/

NorthStar It & Business Solutions said...

Elevate your online presence with NorthITsolutions' Social Media Management Service in Houston. Our skilled team crafts engaging content, implements strategic campaigns, and monitors analytics to boost your brand across various platforms.

Ashraf said...

Discover the expertise of ProSignsHouston, Houston's premier signage company, in creating dynamic car wraps. Elevate your brand presence with our professional and impactful Car Wraps Houston transforming your vehicle into a standout mobile advertising platform.

goldndiamond trade said...

GoldNDiamond Trade, a trusted diamond buyer and seller in Houston, offers exemplary Diamond Buyers Houston texas Our expert team ensures a seamless and transparent diamond transaction, providing fair and competitive valuations.

Fleets World said...

Keeping up with the latest trends and innovations in the automotive industry is crucial for businesses to stay competitive. Whether it's understanding vehicle maintenance or fleet management solutions, resources like fleetsworld provide valuable insights for optimizing operations. They cover everything from emerging technologies to cost-saving strategies, helping fleet owners make informed decisions.